I Need a Spell to Make Him Want Me Back!

Dear Starwitch, I need your help. I was in a relationship with a guy for a year and a half but then due to some reasons we broke up. But even after that we are on talking terms.... everything is the same, except that the words "relationship" and "commitment" are not there. It's just like before - We talk, we say I love you, we meet, we have sex, but we are not in a relationship... and I want him back with me forever..... and also the reason we broke up was that he never use to give me importance in front of his friends, and this is also happening now. I want him back and I want him to value me and respect me and my love. I really can't live without him. I want him for the rest of my life. Separation or divorce is not an option for me. I hope you understand what I am going through. And yes, I have also discussed my problem with him, but he repeats the same thing every time. So please help me out with this.

I want you to tell me a suitable spell for my problems which is easy to perform. Also, as I live in India, it's really difficult to get the occult stuff.

Waiting for your reply.

Thanks,
Ankita

Dear Ankita, What he means is that you're important for his sexual gratification, but not important enough for him to commit to you. Why would he bother committing to you and dealing with the hassle of having a girlfriend when he can have sex with you with no obligation?

I think the thing that women usually fail to realize is that sex is THE single most important thing for the majority of men. Sex is their motivating force. Sex is the main reason that they put up with the immature, petty, bitchy behavior of some women. Throughout all of our tantrums and whining and complaining, they're still hoping that somehow they'll manage to get laid. As women, it's hard for us to imagine how a person's sex drive can be such a motivating factor in his life, but if you just take a look at the animal kingdom, you'll see that nearly all animals operate in the exact same way. The males are primarily motivated by sex and all of their actions and behaviors are designed so that they will achieve copulation with a female.

Even though men desire sex more than anything else, you can't just give it to them all the time. If you're in a typical relationship where neither of you is self-aware (consciously allowing Spirit to work through you at all times) then you are dealing with his ego, not his spirit. Therefore, it's necessary that you learn how to manipulate his ego properly. The way to do this will obviously vary depending on the person, but one general rule that you can follow with men is this:

Men like a challenge.

Don't throw yourself at a man and give him everything he wants. If you do, he'll think that you're easy. He won't think of you as a challenge. Why do you suppose your man would want a woman who is so desperate and needy that she would do practically anything to keep a man in her life? (He wouldn't!)

You want to make him think that you're worth having and worth waiting for (because you are). Confident, self-assured women don't allow their man to disrespect them, put them down, abuse them, or use them for sexual purposes.

A strong woman is happy with herself and doesn't mind being alone. If you can be happy alone, this gives you a huge advantage over men, and your relationships will thrive because of it. If he knows that you don't need him, then he'll have to try to win your affection. But if you've made it clear to him that you're lost without him, that you feel hopeless and lonely when he isn't there, then he knows that he can treat you any way he wants to, and you'll still be there waiting for him, since you don't have enough self-esteem to move on and find someone who'll treat you better. For any man to think you are worthy, you have to think of yourself as worthy first.

This is why it's so important to develop self-love and self-esteem. If you don't like being around yourself, what makes you think that anyone else is going to enjoy your company? Most likely they won't. I don't say this to make you feel hopeless. I'm saying it to let you know that you can decide to fix this problem. You can start now, making positive changes in your life. There are thousands of books written on this topic. There are endless numbers of websites and online videos where you can learn this material for free. If you can get out of your own head for even a few minutes a day and look at things objectively and with a calm mind, and spend some time developing your self-esteem through one of the many methods available, you'll see a huge improvement in all areas of your life.

The truth is, you have to work on yourself before you'll ever be able to have a fulfilling relationship with another person. If you feel that you aren't complete without a mate, then that means that you aren't complete, period. Having a mate will only make things worse because you'll expect him to complete you. He can't complete you. Only you can complete you. Try to meditate daily and allow Spirit to work through you to create the perfect life for you. This is a conscious decision that you must make and you have to stick with it, always asking God/Spirit to guide you and work through you. Eventually, you'll find that you have become the God of your own life and that you have control over everything that happens. That's how you create a better life. Then you'll be able to attract a partner who's on the same level of consciousness as you, and each of you will be able to give 100% to the other person, resulting in a loving, caring, giving relationship where both people's needs are met and exceeded. This is the future of human relationships. I hope to see you there!

Bright Blessings,
Starwitch P.S. I want to add that when a person is so desperate that they say things like, "I really can't live without him," that makes me suspect that you may have lost a part of your soul to this person. In that case, I would recommend that you look into having a Soul Retrieval done in order to get back what was lost. You were probably already weak when you met this person and that was how you got pulled into an unhealthy relationship.

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