Perfect Mate Love Spell
This love spell is intended to attract the perfect mate
and partner. In the circle, ground and center. Meditate on all the
preconceived ideas you have about the perfect partner.
Maybe you have a particular candidate in mind for romance.
Release the thought of that person (it would be most unethical to work
magick to make a certain person love you; this would violate their free
will, and put you in jeopardy by The Law of Return). Release all notions
of what your perfect lover will look like. These are externals, and if you
cling to them then you run the risk of overlooking your ideal mate simply
because your conscious mind was focused on superficialities.
Two candles: One white, One in your favorite color
Two candle holders
A rose colored altar cloth
A piece of red chalk
This love spell can be performed at any time. I usually find that the
evening is the best. When your mind is clear and open, hold the candle of
your favorite color: this represents you. Meditate, then speak aloud all
the qualities and energies you are willing to bring to an intimate
relationship. Replace that candle on the altar, and pick up the white one.
This represents your ideal partner. Speak aloud the essential qualities
you desire in a mate, and ask Aphrodite to bring you together in this
Now place the two candles in their holders at opposite ends of the altar.
Draw a heart on the center with the red chalk, large enough for both
candle holders. Each day thereafter, meditate on the perfect loving
relationship for a few minutes, and move the two candles an inch close
together. If you started on the new moon, then by full moon the candles
should be touching in the center of the heart. When they meet, draw two
more hearts around the first one, raise energy by singing your favorite
love song, and charge the candles.