Why am I unable to contact my deceased husband?

piper4ever · Post by **piper4ever** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 7:27 pm

If this is in the wrong place--please move it to where it should be and I'm Sorry!!

Now my Question.........

I lost my husband of 28 yrs on Jan. 22, 2010----------------

I wish to talk to him, I have been able to see spirits since I was little,
so I want to know WHY I can't see my Love, and is there ANY thing that can help me to contact him.

and I live where you can't go buy all this fancy stuff that these spells have said I needed, some of it I've never heard of either!!
PLEASE Help me contact my LOVE>

Thanks!!

Post by **[wind_wolf]** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 10:48 pm

meditate for an hour or so in the dark with a mirror in one hand and picture of him him the other thinking of nothing but him...reach out to him. *note*cast a circle first. when u feel the contact either look into the mirror or keep ur eyes closed n try to 'talk' to ur love. and just so u know he may have crossed over

Post by **Starwitch Stone** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 11:58 am

I'm very sorry to hear of your husband's passing. I hope you are doing okay.

Here are the exact instructions for the mirror technique developed by Raymond Moody. There is also a book about it if you want to read the book.

http://www.near-death.com/experiences/triggers18.html

I've read many books about the afterlife and some of them say that after a person dies, they may need a period of adjustment before they will contact loved ones. He is probably in a spirit hospital healing his soul from the trauma that Earth caused to it.

I've also heard that it's best not to keep calling them back to Earth because they have a hard time being happy and moving on if they know that their loved ones are grieving. (Doing it once or twice shouldn't be too much of a problem, I'm guessing.) Read "Stephen Lives" for more information about that kind of thing. It's a good book about a boy who committed suicide and continued to communicate with his mother after death. She transcribed what he said to her and made a book out of it. It's very interesting and he gives a lot of info about the afterlife and what people do there. There are really a lot of books about this topic that you'd probably enjoy reading.

Bright Blessings,

Post by **Starwitch Stone** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 11:59 am

I changed your subject line to a more descriptive one. I think you'll get more responses that way.

Post by **WitchyLady506** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 3:11 pm

StarWitch wrote:
I've also heard that it's best not to keep calling them back to Earth because they have a hard time being happy and moving on if they know that their loved ones are grieving.

This is pretty correct. The thing is, if you talked to him now, before you are peace with his passing, you're only going to make things harder for him as well as yourself. This man loved you deeply, to know that you are in such a state of pain that in a sense was caused by him will only hurt him. Also talking to right now won't allow for you to heal the way you need to. I'm sure when you're ready you'll hear from him.

Post by **reikihealer83** » Sun Mar 28, 2010 1:11 pm

Hello Piper4ever,

First, I am sorry about your husband's passing. All the things posted so far are right on the money. Something else to keep in mind is that he may want to get himself used to being on the other side before he contacts you. The reason I say this is because just like being born, passing and moving on are a journey and one needs to complete that journey as much as he can before he comes back to let you know he is ok. This will effect your ability to contact him as well because he may be working on things to either settle in or reincarnate depending on what he believed. Give it time and I am sure, when he is ready he will make contact somehow (maybe a dream) and let you know he is doing ok. My best to you and yours.

Blessings

Post by **ImperfectAngel** » Sat Apr 10, 2010 11:52 am

reikihealer83 wrote:Hello Piper4ever,

First, I am sorry about your husband's passing. All the things posted so far are right on the money. Something else to keep in mind is that he may want to get himself used to being on the other side before he contacts you. The reason I say this is because just like being born, passing and moving on are a journey and one needs to complete that journey as much as he can before he comes back to let you know he is ok. This will effect your ability to contact him as well because he may be working on things to either settle in or reincarnate depending on what he believed. Give it time and I am sure, when he is ready he will make contact somehow (maybe a dream) and let you know he is doing ok. My best to you and yours.

Blessings

I actually agree...

When my grandfather died in 2001 (whom I was extremely close to) I tried and tried to contact him with no response. I even drove out to his grave to contact him that way. It didn't work...along the way I got 2 flat tires, ran out of gas, and lost my way to a place that I know all to well. Then after a few years I began to smell roses and lavender and thought of him...(don't know why he chose roses and lavender) Finally I tired to contact him and it finally worked.

So maybe he just needs some time or he knows you need some time.