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Coming out of the closet spell

Posted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 7:48 pm
by Ravencry
This spell is to help you feel more open and to help you come out and be who you are, may it be; Lesbian, Gay, Bi, or Transgendered.

What you'll need:
1 White candle
1 White ribbon
1 Piece of paper
Something to draw with; crayons, pencil, pen..ect.

What you need to do:
Draw a Symbol on the paper that symbolizes what makes you, you.

Light the candle, while in your protective circle.

Take the ribbon and fold it fan style on your palm, hold it between your palms saying:

I'm powerful.
I am who i am.
No one can change me.
The Goddess loves me.
And i love myself.'

Tie the ribbon into a bow around the candle.

Hold the paper with your drawing over the candle, and re say the words.

Fold the paper and hide it somewhere in your closet. (Ironic)

Then say:

'Blessed Be.'

Re: Coming out of the closet spell

Posted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 9:56 pm
by reikihealer83
Ravencry,

I absolutely love this! So many people have the toughest time coming out and for good reason. I think this is such an empowering spell and it can really help people. You write some of the most amazing things and share such wisdom. Thank you for this. This will help many people on this forum :)

Re: Coming out of the closet spell

Posted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 11:49 pm
by Ravencry
Thats why I posted this spell. I know that coming out of the closet is the hardest thing for a person to do. I want people to feel that they can, because they can. They have the power!!! They are strong!! I hope that this helps people, like you said.

Re: Coming out of the closet spell

Posted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 2:23 pm
by Traumwandlerin
Such a beautiful spell. Such a great help :)

Just one little thing to mention. Make sure you are able to at least feel good about yourself when you say you love yourself. Otherwise you are lying to yourself and that will damage you further. If you just can't bring up any love for yourself and feel awkward when you are telling this to you, change this line to something more fitting. I'm not good with words, but something along the line "and I can love myself", "and I will love myself" "and I'm beginning to love myself" owuld be more appropiate in this case.

But hopefully you are just not as deep down :)

And why did you do an ironic ending? ^^

Re: Coming out of the closet spell

Posted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 2:49 pm
by Ravencry
So when you come out of the closet, you can take the paper out, too.

Re: Coming out of the closet spell

Posted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 6:32 pm
by Traumwandlerin
What a great idea :D