[help please] Spell to Dissolve Romantic Feelings
Posted: Tue Aug 11, 2015 6:07 pm
Hey everyone ![Smile :)](./images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
So, I'm having a little predicament, and I'd like some help in writing a spell to dissolve my OWN potential romantic feelings.
Firstly, let me give you a bit of background.
(*sigh* settle in, it's a bit of a read, I'm sorry....)
There is this guy that I have known for a little while, we go to the same school. We're both in the school band (but different sections, so we hardly ever interact) and seem to have some of the same interests, but due to the structure of the school, have never gotten a chance to really get to know each other.
Even then, I've always thought of him as an acquaintance, and potential good friend. We did get to know each other a bit better during some volunteer work and a school trip, and we seemed to bond well. But only as friends. Never, ever, did I intend to go beyond that, because that is something that I can decide about a person the first few times I meet them. I had met him several times and never felt the need to pursue a romantic relationship.
In the past couple of months, he suddenly started appearing in my dreams. I can't remember the nature of the dreams, but he was there. Then he started occupying my daytime thoughts, no matter how hard I tried to push them away. I managed to shake it for a couple of weeks.
But then, yesterday, I saw him at the store when I was doing a bit of shopping. I turned to say "hi", but I was immediately hit by a wave of what I call "the crush feeling". The flipping stomach, stuttering heart, red hot face, the works. After I got away from him, I was furious at myself. Because I did NOT want those feelings. I wanted them gone. I felt like those feelings were coming from somewhere else, because the self that I know hasn't, and still doesn't, feel attracted to him. I knew right then that this could wreck any hopes of a good, guiltless friendship. Even after I turned away, I felt like we were connected by a rope of light, extending from the stomach. I could feel it when he left the store and I could feel whenever he was near again.
More than anything, I was confused about why I would suddenly feel that way. I've never liked him like that before. And it's not like he's majorly attractive. He's not. Or that he's stunningly smart or deep. He's not. It's just in the way that he simply IS, that drew me to him in the first place (years ago) and I always felt like we've needed to be together as friends, but not like this.
(And please, PLEASE, don't try to tell me, "aw, sounds like you're in denial about a little crush" because I have done some true honest reflection, and I still do not feel attracted to him. I feel like these feelings are being forced upon me. They're very out-of-the-blue.)
Anyway, so sorry for the long post, I'm just trying to get it all off my chest. It's driving me absolutely batty and I want to find/write a spell to dissolve these romantic feelings that I've suddenly found myself with.
(This coming year, there's going to be much more opportunity for us to grow closer as friends, and I'd like to be able to pursue that, because I feel kind of a platonic soul-mate vibe going on, but until I can get this spell written and performed, I don't feel safe even approaching him.)
I think that rose thorns would be a good ingredient (I heard that they dispel unwanted romances), but what else? And what form should my spell be in (like a jar, candle, poppet, etc.)? I don't know where to even start at this point, and I'd really appreciate some help.
Thanks so much in advance,
Blessed be,
~Falcon
![Smile :)](./images/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
So, I'm having a little predicament, and I'd like some help in writing a spell to dissolve my OWN potential romantic feelings.
Firstly, let me give you a bit of background.
(*sigh* settle in, it's a bit of a read, I'm sorry....)
There is this guy that I have known for a little while, we go to the same school. We're both in the school band (but different sections, so we hardly ever interact) and seem to have some of the same interests, but due to the structure of the school, have never gotten a chance to really get to know each other.
Even then, I've always thought of him as an acquaintance, and potential good friend. We did get to know each other a bit better during some volunteer work and a school trip, and we seemed to bond well. But only as friends. Never, ever, did I intend to go beyond that, because that is something that I can decide about a person the first few times I meet them. I had met him several times and never felt the need to pursue a romantic relationship.
In the past couple of months, he suddenly started appearing in my dreams. I can't remember the nature of the dreams, but he was there. Then he started occupying my daytime thoughts, no matter how hard I tried to push them away. I managed to shake it for a couple of weeks.
But then, yesterday, I saw him at the store when I was doing a bit of shopping. I turned to say "hi", but I was immediately hit by a wave of what I call "the crush feeling". The flipping stomach, stuttering heart, red hot face, the works. After I got away from him, I was furious at myself. Because I did NOT want those feelings. I wanted them gone. I felt like those feelings were coming from somewhere else, because the self that I know hasn't, and still doesn't, feel attracted to him. I knew right then that this could wreck any hopes of a good, guiltless friendship. Even after I turned away, I felt like we were connected by a rope of light, extending from the stomach. I could feel it when he left the store and I could feel whenever he was near again.
More than anything, I was confused about why I would suddenly feel that way. I've never liked him like that before. And it's not like he's majorly attractive. He's not. Or that he's stunningly smart or deep. He's not. It's just in the way that he simply IS, that drew me to him in the first place (years ago) and I always felt like we've needed to be together as friends, but not like this.
(And please, PLEASE, don't try to tell me, "aw, sounds like you're in denial about a little crush" because I have done some true honest reflection, and I still do not feel attracted to him. I feel like these feelings are being forced upon me. They're very out-of-the-blue.)
Anyway, so sorry for the long post, I'm just trying to get it all off my chest. It's driving me absolutely batty and I want to find/write a spell to dissolve these romantic feelings that I've suddenly found myself with.
(This coming year, there's going to be much more opportunity for us to grow closer as friends, and I'd like to be able to pursue that, because I feel kind of a platonic soul-mate vibe going on, but until I can get this spell written and performed, I don't feel safe even approaching him.)
I think that rose thorns would be a good ingredient (I heard that they dispel unwanted romances), but what else? And what form should my spell be in (like a jar, candle, poppet, etc.)? I don't know where to even start at this point, and I'd really appreciate some help.
Thanks so much in advance,
Blessed be,
~Falcon